"Every criticism must be received, studied and then dialogue must ensue"
These wise words were yesterday imparted by Pope Francis in response to a question about how he deals with criticisms of his teachings. It is both refreshing and uplifting to see such a high profile individual with a great deal of power go out of his way to ensure that he takes into account opposing views to his own.
All too often, we seem to be rather selfish and believe that we and our views are always right - a 'my way or no way' mentality. We tend to argue with anyone who questions our beliefs, and thereafter view that person in a more negative light...and see them as being in the wrong. This refusal to see someone else's point of view can often lead to tension, anger, violence and - in extreme circumstances - even War.
Pope Francis' way of thinking offers us an excellent new way of looking at criticism, a three-point-plan that we can put into action in our daily lives. We can replace our arguing and refusal to see someone else's point of view with this three point plan:
1. Calm acceptance that different people see things in different ways
2. Active research and thought about their perspective on the situation
3. Engage in Dialogue about how you can work together and perhaps compromise.
Life is too short and relationships are too precious to be spend angry that someone else has a different belief of view to yours. You can't change what other people think! But what you can do is attempt to see their perspective and then work together. This is the only way forward.
THINK & REFLECT - Put Pope Francis' 'receive, study & discuss' model for criticism and disagreement into action in your everyday life. Next time you disagree with someone, don't argue but instead work with them in order to move forwards.
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